Dating Coach for Men | Defund Simping
How To Get Dates With YourWith Your Ideal 10In Just 8 WeeksIdeal 10 In Just 8 Weeks
(Without Being Rich, Famous, or a Male Model)
8-week premium coaching program for high-performing men who are done being invisible to the women they actually want
Watch how career driven men get the women they want (4 mins)
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See The Transformations
Real men, real results from Defund Simping's program
Client Success Compilation
Client Success Compilation (8 min)
Real Stories, Real Results
See what happens when successful men finally get the dating coaching they deserve
These Men Went From Invisible To Irresistible In Just 8 Weeks
Stop wondering "what if" and start living the dating life you deserve.Read more success stories
Meet Chad
From living in the friend zone to full time VIP dating consultant
From Struggling to Success
Chad didn't have it easy growing up. Getting to high school he was only 5'6 at 103lbs. Girls would often pick over him for other men who were more authentic, confident, and more popular.
Chad knew if he didn't make a change, his dating life would have him deep in an incel reddit talking about how much the modern woman sucks. Soon after Chad got his first kiss at 18, he became obsessed with dating dynamics.
"Why did this girl decide to kiss me? Was it because of what I said, how I had my body language etc?" Chad began making TikToks in 2020 sharing his dating experiences and strategies. A few years later he blew up and was the talk of the town. Chad then quit his day job as a Creative director and became a VIP dating consultant full time.
3 Years of Experience
Chad has been coaching career driven men on how to date on their terms for 3 years.
150+ Men Coached
Refined the system with hundreds of high-performing men. 90% client-reported improvement within 8 weeks.
Proven Results
Built the premier dating coaching system for men who want real results and lasting success.
"I went from invisible to irresistible. Now I help other successful men do the same."
- Chad, Founder
Learn more about Chad's storyPicture Your Life 60 Days From Now
While other men struggle with dating apps and rejection, you'll be living a completely different reality
Your Current Reality:
Swiping endlessly with zero matches or low-quality options
Watching less successful men date the women you want
Feeling invisible and questioning your worth as a man
Success in every area except the one that matters most
Your New Reality:
High-quality women actively pursuing and choosing YOU
Confidence that radiates in every room you enter
Multiple dating options to choose from (abundance mindset)
Dating on your terms where everything you want to happen, HAPPENS!
Imagine a reality where...
You have 1-2 dates per week lined up with girls you DON'T mind showing your homeboys? Being able to date on your terms where everything you want to happen, HAPPENS!
That's not a fantasy. That's what happens when you use the High Value Dating Essentials Method.
The Silent Struggle of Successful Men
"I've built everything..."
"The money, the body, the house, the career. But I'm still alone. I feel like a loser every time I open Hinge and get zero matches. It's embarrassing."
"Why do women go for..."
"...guys with less going for them than me? I've been the nice guy. I've been respectful. I've been generous. And none of it worked."
You don't talk to anyone about this.
You'd be embarrassed to admit you need help with women. You're supposed to have this figured out by now. But dating feels like a confusing game where all the rules changed while you were building your empire.
The Proof Is In The Results
150+ successful transformations across every industry and age group
Success Rate
Men Transformed
Years Experience
Your 8-Week Transformation Timeline
The exact roadmap that takes you from invisible to irresistible
Week 1
Goal Setting & Game Basics
Set clear dating goals and understand fundamental dating dynamics
Week 2
Improve Self Esteem & Confidence
Build unshakeable confidence and develop your masculine presence
Week 3
Book Photographer
Professional photos that showcase your best self and attract quality women
Week 4
Go Over Photos & Dating App Messaging
Optimize your dating profiles and master initial messaging strategies
Week 5
Texting
Perfect your texting game and learn how to keep conversations engaging
Week 6
Approaching
Master real-world approaches and overcome approach anxiety
Week 7
Finish Approaching
Complete your approach training and build consistent confidence
Week 8
First Date & Escalation
Execute perfect first dates and learn proper escalation techniques
You're Not Broken
You've Just Been Lied To
The "Nice Guy" Lie
Being respectful and generous doesn't create attraction. It creates friendships.
The "Success = Attraction" Myth
Your achievements don't automatically translate to dating success. Different skillset entirely.
The "Just Be Yourself" Delusion
If "being yourself" worked, you wouldn't be here. Time for a strategic upgrade.
Introducing: The High Value Dating Essentials Method
The only dating framework built specifically for high-performing men who refuse to settle for scraps.
The 3-Part Framework That Gets Results
Chad's proven system that's helped 150+ high-performing men go from invisible to irresistible
Online Presentation
Together we're going to curate you a dating app profile that gets you 1-2 matches per day easily.
Crush Approach Anxiety
Most men do not approach women unless they are under the influence. I will reset your mindset to allow you to be your true self without substances.
Mindset Reset
Most men date on the woman's terms. We will work together to help you date on yours so you have more success.
"I went from getting ghosted to having my ideal 10 asking ME out. Chad's method is the real deal."
- Marcus T., Software Executive, $180K+
This Is NOT For Everyone
Chad only works with 20 men per quarter. This program demands excellence and isn't for the uncommitted.
DON'T APPLY IF:
- You're looking for a magic pill or overnight results
- You're living paycheck to paycheck
- You're not willing to invest time and energy
- You just want to complain about women
- You're not serious about transforming your life
PERFECT IF YOU:
- Are successful but struggling with dating
- Value quality over quantity in everything
- Are coachable and implement feedback
- Want to attract high-caliber women
- Are ready to become the best version of yourself
"I don't take on clients I can't help succeed. That's why my success rate is 90%."
- Chad
The Real Cost of Staying Where You Are
Smart men make investments. Calculate what continuing to struggle with dating is actually costing you.
Hidden Costs of Dating Failure:
Dating Apps & Premium Features
$50-200/month x 12 months = $600-2,400/year
With zero to show for it
Bad Dates & Wasted Time
20 hours/month x your hourly rate
Time you'll never get back
Opportunity Cost
Years of your prime dating years
The compound effect of lost time
Mental/Emotional Toll
Decreased confidence affecting all areas
Priceless damage to your self-worth
Investment vs. Expense Mindset:
This Program
One-time investment in yourself
Skills that last a lifetime
ROI on Confidence
Improved performance in business & life
Quantifiable career advancement
Quality of Life
Finally having success in ALL areas
The missing piece of your success
Future Relationships
Attract and keep high-quality partners
Skills that compound over time
What Would You Pay...
To never feel invisible to women again? To walk into any room with unshakeable confidence? To finally master the one area of your life that's been holding you back?
Most men spend more on their car payments than they do on becoming irresistible to women.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know before applying
Are results guaranteed?
Yes, if I decide to onboard you it is because I believe I can help you. With our 8 calls together + your new dating app profile, you will be more successful after the 8 weeks than you were before.
How do refunds work?
I give prorated refunds. If you decide to cancel week 4, I give you half your money back.
How can I pay?
I send digital invoices that can be paid with card, apple pay, or a buy now pay later option.
How does the photoshoot work?
It is a 1 hour session that I book for you. Bring up to 3-4 outfits to change.
Why Everything Else Failed You
What Doesn't Work:
Dating Apps
Rigged algorithm. No strategy. Competing with 1000+ men for scraps.
Pickup "Gurus"
Fake, gimmicky tactics that make you look desperate and weird.
Therapy
Too slow. Not actionable. Focuses on problems, not solutions.
YouTube/Self-Help
No structure. No accountability. Generic advice that doesn't stick.
The High Value Dating Essentials Difference:
Proven Framework
150+ successful men. Repeatable system. Structured support.
Built for High-Performers
Designed specifically for successful men who demand excellence.
Direct Access to Chad
Daily communication. Weekly calls. Immediate feedback and course correction.
Fast Results
Most men see dramatic improvement within 2-3 weeks. Full transformation in 8.
The High Value Dating Essentials Guarantee
We're so confident in this system that we're putting our reputation on the line.
Our Promise to You:
Follow the High Value Dating Essentials Method exactly as taught for 8 weeks. If you don't see dramatic improvement in your dating results, we'll continue working with you at no additional cost until you do.
That's how confident we are that this works.
Results Guarantee
See dramatic improvement in your dating results within 8 weeks or keep working with us until you do.
Quality Assurance
We only work with men we know we can help. The 90% client-reported improvement rate speaks to the process.
Zero Risk
Your only risk is staying exactly where you are right now. We eliminate all downside.
Why We Can Make This Guarantee:
- 150+ successful transformations
- Proven system refined over 3 years
- Careful client selection process
- Daily accountability and support
- Immediate course correction
- Chad's personal involvement
LIMITED: Only 20 Spots Per Quarter
Chad personally coaches every client. This isn't a course you watch alone - it's intensive 1-on-1 transformation work.
Spots Remaining
Current Intake
Application Review
Qualified candidates only
Success Rate
This quarter's goal: 100%
Why The Limitation?
Chad provides daily access, weekly calls, and personal accountability to every client. Quality coaching requires limiting the number of men he works with simultaneously.
What Happens If You Wait?
The next available cohort starts in 3 months. That's 90 more days of:
- • Swiping with no results
- • Watching opportunities pass by
- • Feeling invisible and frustrated
- • Missing out on quality women
- • Staying stuck in the same patterns
- • Wondering "what if?"
Applications close when all 20 spots are filled
The 8-Week Elite Dating Transformation
This isn't a course. It's not a program. It's a complete identity transformation with Chad Franklin personally guiding every step.
What's Included:
- 8 weeks of structured training + accountability
- Weekly live coaching calls with Chad
- Daily access to Chad and the team
- Complete dating app optimization
- Texting and conversation mastery
Plus:
- Real-world approach strategies
- Masculine energy development
- Style and presentation upgrade
- Lifetime community access
- Results guarantee*
The High Value Dating Essentials Guarantee
Get your ideal woman or keep working with Chad until you do. That's how confident we are in this system.
Chad only works with 20 men per quarter. This isn't for everyone. You must be serious, coachable, and ready to do the work.
You're One Decision Away
You've invested in your career. Your body. Your home. Your future.
When will you invest in the part of your life that actually matters?
Five years from now, you'll either be the man who took action and finally cracked the code on dating... or you'll still be scrolling through dating apps, wondering why nothing ever changes.
You're not too late. You're not too old. You're not broken.
You just need the right system.
Applications reviewed within 24 hours • Limited spots available